Hobbies Astrology The Sexy and Romantic Side to Astrological Sign Aries Learn more about this flirty, bold, lover of life Share PINTEREST Email Print Andrei Spirache/Photographer's Choice/Getty Images Astrology 12 Signs of the Zodiac Basics Trends & Horoscopes The Sun & Sun Signs The Moon & Moon Signs The Houses Love & Compatibility By Molly Hall Molly Hall is an astrologer, tarot reader, and author of "Astrology: A Complete Illustrated Guide to the Zodiac." our editorial process Molly Hall Updated February 15, 2019 In astrology, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. Coinciding with the spring equinox, you are an Aries if you were born between March 21 and April 21. When it comes to sex and romance, Aries are sexy, because they project big confidence, even if they don't feel it inside. In a world of conformity, the Ram does his or her own thing. Aries is a doer, not a talker, and this inspires respect and can be a big attractant for some. Like Moths to a Flame It is the defiant individuality of an Aries that is attractive and catalyzes others to hold fast to their own inner impulses. Aries is a light that warms everyone up but often burns. Aries is a truly lusty sign. And being action-oriented, the Ram goes after what he or see wants. If you are being pursued by an Aries, you know it is urgent, startling, and makes you feel like a golden prize. Aries in love is restless, flirty, and intense. Aries is a fire sign and often has a flushed face from being on the move. The look is direct and piercing. The flirtation is overtly sexual, to the point of being brutishly crude, especially in the male Ram. Aries can have a touch of arrogance, which is a turn on to some since it seems to imply they are superior. Aries loves to be top dog, and power is an aphrodisiac. Energizer Bunny What is attractive to many is the Aries vitality. Long after others have left the party, Aries continues to dance and is wondering where is the after party? Aries' drive gives them physical endurance in sex and the ability to get their mates fired up. Aries attracts through personal charisma—often they are loud and constantly making their presence known in a group setting. They get slaphappy and have a joie de vivre that is contagious. Aries people are fun to be around and never boring. They are instigators; and a date with Aries can be jam-packed and involve being in hotbeds of activity. Big Passion Aries are passionate creatures. The men have great machismo and swagger, and the Aries women are edgy. Aries is the most masculine of signs, making it perfect for the man's man, and for the assertive woman that inspires awe and/or fear. Both Aries men and women need partners that can meet their strength of will, or they lose interest. They light up any moment with their big personality. They love the chase and the promise of winning, but they are notorious for losing interest once the prize is won. Aries likes sexually confident lovers. They want a partner in adventure. They are turned off by insecurity, too much emotion, or over-analyzing. They are instinctual and act on gut feelings. Aries lovers are demanding, but the demand comes from their own nature, which is one of relentlessly pressing into new experiences. They do it up big and are generous with those they love. The flame burns bright, but when it has gone out, it is hard to rekindle it. Keep Aries' interest by being a bold sparring partner and continually having fresh looks and your own happenings going on.