Hobbies Astrology Venus Libra Love Compatibility Share PINTEREST Email Print Martin Barraud / Getty Images Astrology Love & Compatibility Basics 12 Signs of the Zodiac Trends & Horoscopes The Sun & Sun Signs The Moon & Moon Signs The Houses By Molly Hall Molly Hall is an astrologer, tarot reader, and author of "Astrology: A Complete Illustrated Guide to the Zodiac." our editorial process Molly Hall Updated August 28, 2018 Venus Libra is a demanding lover, watching you for signs of being in thrall. He or she wants to see adoring eyes and will lose interest in a flash if the twinkle goes out of your eyes. What attracts Venus Libra is alertness and bright repartee, as well as an overall appealing outer package. Libra is Venus' own sign and one of a heightened sense for aesthetics. Looks are important to them, though they may have a quirky style, and go for striking types since they also appreciate originality. You'll find clues by reading about Libra in Love since Venus is the love planet. Venus shows us what we're drawn to in relationship, and that varies with the Zodiac signs. Venus Libra guys and gals are strong-willed, and have a cardinal (initiating) edge. Sometimes they're what you might call socially aggressive -- they use their charm and magnetism to steer things their way. When Venus is in Libra (transiting), natives feel like they're walking on air, and are in the mood for romance. Compatible elements are fire and air, and these Venus signs also get a lift. Venus Libra Man - His Love Style Here's Venus Libra with other Venus Signs: Venus Libra with Venus in Aries Venus Libra is at first wowed by the forceful Aries attention but then wilts if that gaze turns elsewhere. Here's a case of opposites attract, but sooner or later both will deploy their particular sign's tactics of one-up-manship. The Aries-Libra polarity means swings from extremes of "Me" and "We," which keeps things interesting! Venus Libra with Venus in Taurus Both are Venus-ruled, and lovers of finely crafted things, the melodious and the tasteful. They are accumulators of nice stuff, though Venus Taurus tends to take that a bit too far for Libra's need for spacious digs. The Bull likes to show love in a sensual, earthy way and may be put off by Venus Libra's running commentary on everything, even analyzing technique in the boudoir. Venus in Taurus Man Venus Libra with Venus in Gemini These are fellow air sign travellers, who share a love of novelty and ideating, and are repulsed by the idiocracy. They may find it hard to settle down together beyond the everyday superficialities that bring them together. It's a pair that delights in wit, irony, and sarcasm. They create their own secret language. Venus Libra with Venus in Cancer Venus Cancer is highly responsive, and that's a big plus, but the Moonchild's oceanic highs and lows soon make Venus Libra seasick. The Crab craves emotional intimacy, and Venus Libra is more likely to show affection with a teasing barb or complement. Venus Libra gets irked at emotional dependency, not copping to his/her own more mental kind of dependency. Venus Libra with Venus in Leo A promising pair that both venerate noble deeds, social grace and having a cultivated personal style. Each demands attention, though they could show a generosity of spirit, and cheer each other on. These signs tend to be status oriented and will want to show off as a couple. Venus Libra prides itself on being able to 'walk in another's shoes,' but benefits from Venus Leo's intensely self-centered creativity. Venus Libra with Venus in Virgo Both signs have sensitive nervous systems, and if things go well, will create an orderly refuge against the chaotic world. They also share a perfectionist streak that could eclipse the peak moments. Venus Libra can be the provocateur here, to disrupt balance, to reach new heights and avoid ruts of routine. But if there's trust, Venus Virgo likely won't mind. Venus Libra with Venus in Libra They instinctively know what the other needs -- a lover that mirrors back both the inner and outer beauty. They are a matching pair for double the social observations and insights on the relationship itself. If they don't overtalk things, they'll find time to be uplifted by art, music, and memoir. They'll create a haven because they know that as much as Libra likes togetherness, he/she also needs time alone. Venus Libra with Venus in Scorpio Venus Libra likes the adoring gaze, but with Venus Scorpio, those penetrating eyes peer into the very soul! The Scorpio lover comes across as serious, and at times even Venus Libra can turn that brooding frown upside down. Both have strong libidos, but Scorpio wants an atmosphere, not a wall of sound (Libra talking). A magnetic coupling, if they harmonize very different personalities of diving deep and surfacing. Venus Libra with Venus in Sagittarius A restless twosome here that both like travels of the mind, and are generally socially curious. There's more of the harmonizer in Libra, while the Archer tends to be vigilantly attuned to its own firebrand seeking. They share keen observations about people, the world, and life. Venus Libra is more of a serial monogamist, while the Sagittarian lover sows many oats before settling down. Venus Libra with Venus in Capricorn This match-up is a study in contrasts and in a nutshell one of light work and heavy lifting. Venus Libra is apt to work in bursts, with plenty of time for lounging around. Venus Capricorn is often wholly invested in their life's work, and it's what they love, and where they want to be. Both like refined things, status and a sense of climbing upward, whether it's socially or materially. Venus Libra with Venus in Aquarius They share a revulsion for narrow-minded people but paradoxically could get competitive with opinions. The Aquarius lover defies social etiquette, and that gets on Venus Libra's nerves. Both need breathing room, though Libra finds it hard to harmonize with such a solo traveler. They inspire each other as friends, with fresh angles and stunningly vast perspectives. Venus in Aquarius Woman Venus Libra with Venus in Pisces Now, this is interesting because Venus Libra likes clear communication, while Venus Pisces speaks in metaphor or not at all. Both can be cup half full types, though, and even see crazy ordeals as "blessings in disguise." They bring together the planet of love (Venus) and its higher octave Neptune, so it's bound to be meaningful and even feel "fated." They share a gift for insight into the psyche, and this helps them bridge the gap between mind and spirit.