Entertainment Love and Romance Ten Simple Ways to be More Romantic Lesbian Romance Share PINTEREST Email Print Love and Romance LGBTQ Relationships Sexuality Divorce Teens Friendship By Kathy Belge Syracuse University Kathy Belge is a writer and coauthor of Lipstick & Dipstick’s Essential Guide to Lesbian Relationships and Queer: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens. our editorial process Facebook Facebook Twitter Twitter LinkedIn LinkedIn Kathy Belge Updated January 25, 2017 Romance can happen any time. One of the secrets to a long and happy relationship is feeling loved and appreciated by your partner. It’s the little things that make her feel special and that you’re still in love with her. Here are some simple ways to be romantic with your girlfriend, partner or wife each and every day. 01 of 10 Read her a romantic story or poem out loud. © Steve Woods Try Best Lesbian Romance series or Best Lesbian Erotica by Cleis Press. Read her a poem from one of your favorite poets. Or write your own poem or short story and read that to her. 02 of 10 Leave her love notes. Love Letter. © Justyna Furmanczyk Stash one her in lunch box or on the windshield of her car. If she’s going out of town, stash one in her suitcase. Put a love note on the bathroom mirror. Stick a note in her pants pocket so she finds it when she gets to work. If you’re going to be out of town or you don’t live together, hide one on her pillow with a piece of chocolate. 03 of 10 Go for a drive outside of the city. Take a Drive in the Country. © Lew Robertson/Getty Images Put some love songs on the stereo and your hand upon her thigh. 04 of 10 Play a Love Song Love Song. © Marja F-B Pick a romantic song that reminds you of her and leave your CD player or iPod out and tell her to hit play. Or, if you're a musician, serenade her with one of your own tunes or a favorite love song. 05 of 10 Sunset, Champagne and Flowers Watch the Sunset. Courtesy of Seneca County Tourism Buy a bottle of champagne and some flowers and pick her up after work. Take her to place where you can watch the sunset. 06 of 10 Take her on a Mystery Date. Mystery Date. © Rose Ann Just tell her how to dress and when to be ready. Then take her somewhere fun and unexpected, like to see one of your favorite bands, to the zoo or on a Ferris wheel ride. 07 of 10 Watch a romantic lesbian movie together. Watching Movies in Bed. © altrendo images Pick one of our favorites, or choose one of your own. 08 of 10 Moonlight Walk on the Beach. © Lauren J Take a moonlit, beach or riverside walk together. Hold hands and talk about your dreams for the future. 09 of 10 Call and Text Text Message. © Aschwin Prein Call or text her during the day just to say you’re thinking about her. 10 of 10 Plan something sweet and sexy. Sexy Bath. courtesy of Indie PR Run her a bubble bath, give her a foot rub or shoulder massage, model some sexy new lingerie or buy a new sex toy and spend the evening in.