Entertainment TV & Film Tallulah Bankhead: Flamboyant Actress and TV Host Flamboyant Actress Share PINTEREST Email Print Tallulah Bankhead, about 1930. (Moviepix/John Kobal Foundation/Getty Images) TV & Film TV Shows Comedies Dramas Documentaries Shows For Kids Movies By Jone Johnson Lewis Women's History Writer B.A., Mundelein College M.Div., Meadville/Lombard Theological School Jone Johnson Lewis, M.Div., is a Humanist cleric and certified transformational coach. As a freelance writer, she specializes in women's history. our editorial process Jone Johnson Lewis Updated January 14, 2020 Tallulah Bankhead was an award-winning actress. She a lasting mark on stage and screen, known for her flamboyant personality, racy affairs, and deep voice. She lived from January 31, 1902 - December 12, 1968. She was also a popular radio talk show host and television host. "If I had my life to live over again, I'd make the same mistakes, only sooner." Early Life Tallulah Bankhead was born in Alabama, daughter of Congressman William Bankhead (later Speaker of the House, 1936-40). Her mother died of complications from childbirth several weeks later, and she was raised in part by her aunts and grandparents. She was named Tallulah for her grandmother, who was named for a waterfall, Tallulah Falls, in Georgia. She was educated in New York City, Staunton, Virginia, and Washington, DC. Her exhibitionist personality was apparent from an early age. Starting Out Tallulah Bankhead's first part in a film was in 1917 and her first stage role in 1918. After a few other minor roles in film and on stage, she went to England in 1923, where she became famous for her flamboyant personality and deep voice and was popular in the six plays in which she appeared. Career Tallulah Bankhead returned to the United States in 1931 with a Paramount Pictures contract, and then was off to New York in 1933, where she was diagnosed and treated surgically for advanced gonorrhea. Tallulah Bankhead then returned to the New York stage in Dark Victory, Rain, Something Gay and Reflected Glory. Her 1937 film, Antony and Cleopatra, was considered a definite flop. In 1939, she received awards for her work in The Little Foxes by Lillian Helman, and in 1942 she won awards for her performance in Skin of Our Teeth. Her film performance in Hitchcock's Lifeboat in 1944 won yet more awards; in 1948 she starred in Otto Preminger's A Royal Scandal and in 1948 she starred on stage in Private Lives by Noel Coward. Tallulah Bankhead retired from the stage in 1950, beginning a radio show with many celebrity guests. In 1952 she hosted for a television show and published her autobiography. She appeared on Steve Allen and Lucille Ball's television shows and starred in a nightclub act in Las Vegas. Several attempts at reviving her stage career either failed or had modest success. Her last acting performance was on the television series Batman in 1967. Personal Life Tallulah Bankhead married actor John Emery in 1937 and they divorced in 1941. She had no children. After her 1942 success, she bought a home in rural New York where she entertained frequently. Estelle Winwood and Patsy Kelly were among the guests who lived with her there. Many ask whether Tallulah was a lesbian. Undoubtedly, she did have sex and relationships with women, as well as men. Her name was linked during her lifetime with many people -- men and women -- and she carefully nurtured her wild reputation. She was also known for using cocaine and often mentioned that she did. Tallulah Bankhead was active in politics, supporting Democratic and liberal causes and campaigning for Franklin D. Roosevelt. She helped to raise funds for war relief and the war effort during World War II. She was also a fan of the New York Giants. Frequent Questions Where did the name "Tallulah" come from?She was named Tallulah for her grandmother, who was named for a waterfall, Tallulah Falls, in Georgia. Was Tallulah Bankhead a lesbian?If the question is "Did she have sex and relationships with women?" then the answer is undoubtedly yes. She also had sexual and other relationships with many men. Did Tallulah Bankhead use cocaine?Yes, she often said that she did. Biographies Bret, David. Tallulah Bankhead: A Scandalous Life Brian, Denis. Tallulah, Darling: A Biography of Tallulah Bankhead Carrier, Jeffrey L. Tallulah Bankhead: A Bio-Bibliography Selected Quotes • Nobody can be exactly like me. Even I have trouble doing it. • I've been called many things, but never an intellectual. • I'm as pure as the driven slush. • The only thing I regret about my past is the length of it. • I'm not at my best when I start to moralize or philosophize. Logic is elusive, especially to one who so rarely uses it. • I have three phobias which, could I mute them, would make my life as slick as a sonnet, but as dull as ditch water: I hate to go to bed, I hate to get up, and I hate to be alone. • I have been absolutely hag-ridden with ambition. If I could wish to have anything in the world it would be to be free of ambition. • I read Shakespeare and the Bible, and I can shoot dice. That's what I call a liberal education. • I did what I could to inflate the rumor I was on my way to stardom. What I was on my way to, by any mathematical standards known to man, was oblivion, by way of obscurity. • It's one of the tragic ironies of the theatre that only one man in it can count on steady work -- the night watchman. • If you really want to help the American theater, don't be an actress, dahling. Be an audience. • Don't be taken in by the guff that critics are killing the theater. Commonly they sin on the side of enthusiasm. Too often they give their blessing to trash. • Television could perform a great service in mass education, but there's no indication its sponsors have anything like this on their minds. • I think the Republican party should be placed in drydock and have the barnacles scraped off its bottom. • I'll come and make love to you at five o'clock. If I'm late start without me. • It's the good girls who keep diaries; the bad girls never have the time. • Here's a rule I recommend: Never practice two vices at once.