Entertainment Love and Romance Signs Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Wants to Break Up with You 12 Signs That You Are About to Break Up Share PINTEREST Email Print Love and Romance Teens Relationships Sexuality Divorce LGBTQ Friendship By Mike Hardcastle Updated February 20, 2018 Getting dumped, it happens to the best of us and nothing feels worse. Losing love is hard enough but add rejection to the mix and it can be devastating. When you've been dumped it feels like your world is closing in to smother you and you wonder if you will ever feel happy again. The good news is "yes" one day you will feel happy again, you will love again and the loss will become nothing more than a life experience. But when you are in the middle of it, caught in those end days of a once blossoming relationship, it can feel like the confusion will never end. Relationships don't just end. Like it or not you can always see a breakup coming. There are always clues. When we sense a looming breakup we often retreat into denial and this is why actually being dumped seems like such a shock. But the reality is that anybody who is willing to look can see the writing's on the wall long before the relationship actually ends. What kind of things signal that the relationship is coming to a close? Here are the 12 most common signs that the end is near. S/he is suddenly busy all the time and never seems to have time to spend with you. When you find yourself becoming less and less of a time priority, even if the reasons for the distance seem logical, it is never a good thing.You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone or if you are always the one to send the first text, especially if the phone calls and text messages used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message. Be it a parent, sibling or friend, if somebody else always seems to answer the phone and take a message you are probably being screened, and we don't screen people we want to talk to! Also, if they are taking a long time to respond to your text messages, or they "forget" to respond at all, the relationship is soon to be over. S/he says s/he is one place but is really another. People do not tend to lie for no reason; if s/he is not being honest about where s/he is or who s/he is with there is rarely a noble reason for the deception.You don't seem to connect anymore. Remember how when you were first getting together you would run into each other in unexpected places, like between classes or at the mall? If these "accidental" meetings become less commonplace it may be no accident at all. This person might not want to be around you as much. Her/his friends seem distant. When somebody wants out of a relationship they often let their friends in on the secret well ahead of time. If your steady's friends seem less friendly it is a good indicator that they know something you don't and that it probably isn't good.The lovin' is gone! When affection and PDAs (public displays of affection) start to dwindle it could mean the fire of love is also going out. So, if he/she is no longer holding your hand, kissing you, and cuddling with you, the end of your love connection might be near. S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend". Ouch! If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.You seem to be fighting a lot about little things. Lots of little fights often mean much bigger things are really an issue.Kissing and telling. Respect is a relationship essential, once it has been compromised the relationship often follows suit.You just can't seem to do ANYTHING right. Be it the style of your hair or the way you walk, if you're steady suddenly finds fault with everything you do s/he is probably trying to push you away.You avoid any conversation that begins with "we have to talk" or "I don't know how to say this." If your steady is using these opening lines a breakup speech usually follows. If you are avoiding conversations that start like this it is probably because you sense that a break up is near and think that if you avoid the talk it won't happen. You are wrong. If a person wants out of a relationship they will get out whether you let them tell you or not. Avoiding this talk is just prolonging the inevitable. Breakups can be harsh but they hurt less if you face the facts rather than hide from the truth. Good luck!