Resources for Troubled Marriages

All marriages have good times and bad times. The key to preserving your marriage lies in not letting small issues develop into larger ones. That may seem overly simple when, in fact, your problems feel huge, but it forms a foundation for numerous steps you can take to preserve your marriage. 

Marriage Therapy and Counseling 

Just talking things out can help you find middle ground, particularly when the conversation is guided by a professional.

Counseling can help you zero in on the root of problems and dig that root up so you can move on. 

Issues of Infidelity 

Affairs can be emotional, sexual/physical or even remote — they happen online. An emotional affair differs from a platonic friendship, but it can be easy to confuse them. Learn the warning signs of an emotional affair and how to defend yourself against one. Explore common reasons for cheating and warning signs that your spouse might be considering an affair or has begun one.

Top Ten Marital Mistakes  

Your problem may not be as unique as you think. Many couples experience similar problems and issues. Learn about the top 10 reasons marriages break up and how you can try to avoid them.  

Ways to Improve Your Marriage

If you're experiencing problems, try to avoid throwing the towel in right away, at least until you try these tips to improve and heal your relationship. 

Tough Issues in Marriage

Get help coping with equality/submission concerns, finances, family planning, parenting, in-laws, remarriage, blended families, domestic violence, sexuality problems, gender issues, health concerns, pornography, secrecy, housework, stress, cultural or racial differences, and even sleeping together.

Help With Handling Problems in Your Marriage 

Learn how to best handle it if you're having trust issues, difficulty in forgiving, adultery concerns, if you're wondering about change, or if your spouse isn't fighting fair. 

Saving Your Marriage 

Learning what makes for a successful marriage can help you save your own relationship.

Some tips can also help you start out on strong footing to avoid problems later on down the line. 

Calling It Quits 

Ending your marriage is never an easy decision. Learn about some of the things you should consider if you think you've reached the end. Develop skills to help you deal with disillusionment, making plans and letting go. If you have questions and you're not convicted, you might not be ready to head for the door quite yet. 

Know Your Legal Rights 

If you're sure the end has come, see a local lawyer. Divorce and marriage laws can differ considerably from state to state so learn where you stand. Things like annulment, child support, alimony and property division can be quite different depending on where you live. 

If marriage were easy, no one would ever get divorced and they might not even try it in the first place. But despite potential problems, getting married might be the most fulfilling and gratifying gift you can give yourself. Hopefully, these resources will help you begin on a firm foundation and navigate any rough spots.