How To Give Oral Sex

Performing Fellatio

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Do you think you know everything you need to know about how to deliver an impressive fellatio? Deep throating at its best, while controlling the gag reflex, it’s a technique difficult to master. You’ve probably seen other guys do it without blinking.

To begin with, there is a common disclaimer that many medical experts would use to describe deep throating: it is not for everyone and the gag reflex was intended by nature.

However, if you’re set to be an expert in oral sex there are some tips to help you deliver a magnificent fellatio.

First, pace yourself and relax. Make sure your partner is also relaxed and aroused. You can start by building up the level of excitement by teasing the penis, paying special attention to the head (the glans). The glans is the most sensitive part of the penis and by stimulating it you allow the penis to get erected to its full potential. When you are ready to take the entire penis into your mouth, it is important that you use your saliva to keep it lubricated. Use your tongue to massage the shaft and your hand to slowly guide the penis deeper. When you are ready to go even deeper, extend the tongue beyond your lips (beneath his penis).

The challenge is to eliminate the natural slope of the back of the mouth down into the throat. To do this you will need to practice angling your head back to create a straight line with your neck.

This obviously, requires creative positioning of your body while in the act and again... practice, practice, practice. Relax your throat muscles and try continually swallowing to take the penis into your throat. You may want to practice with a dildo, but with all of this please be careful not to push yourself to hard.

It can take months to master this technique.